A US-based Nigerian cardiologist, Dr Ikenna Erinn, reportedly held his estranged partner and their children hostage at gunpoint for three hours before taking his own life when police arrived, his father-in-law, Francis Van-Lare, has alleged.
The tragic death of the 36-year-old cardiologist has sparked intense debate and widespread reactions from Nigerians both at home and abroad.
Initially believed to have taken his own life due to financial strain from a $15,000 monthly child support ruling, new revelations suggest that his final moments were far more disturbing.
Francis Van-Lare, the father of Erinne’s estranged partner, has alleged that before his suicide, the deceased doctor held his daughter and grandchildren hostage at gunpoint for three hours.
He ultimately turned the weapon on himself when police arrived.
Van-Lare, a socialite and public figure, made the claim on his official Facebook account on Sunday.
This was in response to an earlier post by Facebook user Amanda Chisom, who clarified that Erinne’s ex-partner was not a white woman, as widely speculated, but Van-Lare’s daughter.
Father-in-Law’s Allegation
In the Facebook comment addressing speculations surrounding his daughter’s involvement, Van-Lare provided chilling details of the incident.
He wrote, “While my daughter was involved in a custody battle, I only became aware around 3am Nigerian time last Monday that the deceased held her and her children at gunpoint for three hours after losing the case.
“The nanny managed to escape and called the police, and upon their arrival, he shot himself.”
He further revealed that Erinne was facing three counts of kidnapping with a deadly weapon, each carrying a sentence of 25 years to life in prison.
“I guess he decided to kill himself instead of facing the charges,” he added.
Despite the shocking nature of the incident, Van-Lare expressed sympathy for the late doctor’s family, clarifying that his daughter was not responsible for his decision to take his own life.
“While I sympathise with his family, my daughter is not to blame for his death. And I thank God it did not escalate to where he shot my daughter, grandchildren, and himself,” the father-in-law stated.
Concluding his statement, he acknowledged the deep trauma the situation has caused for all involved.
He concluded, “May his soul rest in peace. Everyone is a loser here. It is traumatising for all, including me. No winners here.”
Amid the tragedy, misinformation spread rapidly, with many Nigerians believing Erinne’s ex-partner was a white woman who had used the legal system against him.
However, Chisom debunked these claims, revealing that the mother of his children is actually an Igbo woman—the daughter of Francis Van-Lare.
She wrote, “Ikenna did not marry a white woman. He had children with an Igbo woman, Francis Van-Lare’s daughter. However, they were never married. He called off the wedding, largely due to family concerns.”
She described Erinne as a quiet and reserved man, noting that his personality may have contributed to how he handled his struggles.
“Ikenna was always too quiet for his own good. If you pushed him, he would simply walk away. He was unassuming and a true gift to his generation,” she continued.
Her revelation shifted the conversation, igniting fresh discussions on marriage, family structures, and mental health struggles among Nigerian men abroad.
Lessons on Marriage, Due Diligence
Chisom also used the tragedy to highlight the importance of evaluating a partner’s background before commitment.
She cautioned against making decisions based solely on emotions, emphasising the lasting impact of family values and upbringing.
Chisom further stated, “This tragedy serves as a harsh reminder of why it is essential to ask questions and do thorough background checks before marriage.
“It is not enough to be carried away by beauty, intelligence, or temporary affection. A person’s upbringing, family values, and personal history play a significant role in shaping their character.”
She further warned against marrying individuals from dysfunctional homes, arguing that unresolved trauma often affects their ability to sustain relationships.
“If possible, avoid marrying someone from a broken home. The foundation of a person’s family often influences their ability to build and sustain their own. If a home was built on chaos, unresolved trauma, or a lack of unity, chances are those patterns will repeat,” her post stated.
Her remarks sparked a fierce debate online, with some agreeing while others criticised her for shifting blame instead of addressing systemic flaws in custody laws and the pressures men face in divorce cases.
No Winners, Only Loss
What started as a legal custody battle has ended in an irreversible tragedy, leaving families broken and social media users divided over who is to blame.
For some, Erinne’s death serves as a painful reminder of the mental health struggles that many men, particularly those in the diaspora, silently endure.
For others, it reignites discussions about the fairness of family courts and the heavy financial burden placed on fathers in custody cases, PUNCH Online observed from the series of comments on all the posts.
Yet, as Van-Lare himself put it, no one truly wins in such a tragic situation.
As he prayed for the soul of the departed doctor, he concluded, “Everyone is a loser here… No winners.”
“May Dr Ikenna Erinne rest in peace.”
